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What Property Rights Do Same-Sex Couples Have in Adoption?

Alexander | Grossman Attorneys at Law June 3, 2025

When same-sex couples welcome a child into their home, questions about joint ownership of real estate, inheritance, and estate planning often arise. A solid understanding of these rights protects your family and gives both parents equal standing. From co-ownership of your residence to updating deeds, the steps you take now will secure your child’s future and your peace of mind. 

At Alexander Grossman Attorneys at Law, we help same-sex couples understand their property rights during and after the adoption process.

As a family-owned and operated law firm, it comes naturally to treat our clients like family. You can expect to be treated as a unique individual with valid human needs, not just another case number. We proudly serve communities in and around Skokie, Illinois, including Cook County, Lake County, Lincolnwood, Morton Grove, Evanston, Glenview, Wilmette, and Niles.

Understanding Adoption Laws and Property Rights

Adoption laws define the legal relationship between parents and children, which then affects property ownership. In Illinois law, once an adoption is finalized, both parents are recognized as the child’s legal parents. This recognition extends to all property rights tied to parenting, including rights related to real estate you own or plan to acquire together.

However, different rules may apply, depending on whether you hold title as joint tenants or tenants in common. Title arrangements determine what happens to your home if one parent dies or if you sell the property.

Exploring these options minimizes uncertainty and protects the real estate interests of both parents and their adopted child.

Property Rights for Same-Sex Adoptive Parents

Before closing on a home or refinancing real estate, it helps to know your rights once adoption is complete:

  • Joint tenancy rights: When you hold property as joint tenants, each parent has equal ownership, and the survivor inherits the full interest automatically.

  • Tenancy in common: This option allows parents to own specific shares, which can be passed to their chosen heirs rather than automatically to the other parent.

  • Rights to marital home: Adoptive parents have the same protections as biological parents under Illinois marital property laws, including equity division on divorce.

  • Inheritance rights: Once adoption is final, the child gains inheritance rights from both parents under intestate succession rules.

  • Use and possession rights: Both parents have equal authority to live in, rent out, or manage real estate without needing consent from the other.

 These rights form the foundation for long-term planning and protect your family’s assets.

How Illinois Law Protects Real Estate Interests

Illinois recognizes same-sex adoption fully, which means property laws apply equally to all married couples. The Illinois Marriage and Dissolution of Marriage Act treats adopted children the same as biological ones when dividing assets or awarding maintenance. That includes real estate owned during the marriage.

Any deed executed after adoption should reflect the updated parental status. Recording affidavits that confirm both parents’ names on property documents prevents third parties from challenging ownership. By taking these steps, you reinforce your claim to real estate and simplify future transactions.

Joint Ownership Options After Adoption

Choosing the right form of ownership for your home is a critical decision for adoptive couples. The ownership types available include:

  • Joint tenancy with right of survivorship: Ownership seamlessly transfers to the surviving parent without the need for probate, providing uninterrupted control over the property.

  • Tenancy by the entirety: Available only to married couples, this creates a single legal entity owning the property; typically, creditors of one spouse can’t force a sale.

  • Tenancy in common: Parents hold undivided shares that can be sold or inherited independently, offering flexibility but requiring coordination on decisions.

Each option offers distinct benefits and consequences for real estate held during the marriage or civil union.

Handling Real Estate Transactions as Adoptive Parents

When you buy, sell, or refinance real estate, you’ll work with lenders, title companies, and attorneys who will review your adoption decree. Your decree confirms your parental status and supports joint signatures on mortgage and deed documents. Lenders may request certified copies to verify both parents’ rights before closing.

Always review the title commitment to make sure there are no liens or judgments that could affect your ownership. A clear title report secures your rights and prevents surprises, such as claims by former partners or creditors. Proper title insurance provides additional protection for your real estate investments.

Updating Estate Plans Following Adoption

Adoption changes your family structure and requires corresponding updates to your will and trust. After welcoming a child, you should revise or create the following estate planning documents:

  • Will revisions: Update your will to include both parents as guardians and leave bequests to your adopted child.

  • Trust amendments: Designate your child as a beneficiary of any living trust holding real estate or financial assets.

  • Power of attorney updates: Grant each other the authority to make financial decisions, including those involving real estate, in the event one parent becomes incapacitated.

  • Healthcare directives: Verify that both parents have decision-making authority for medical care and living arrangements if necessary.

These updates should account for your new role as parents while safeguarding the interests of both parents and, most importantly, your child.

Protecting Your Child’s Future in Real Estate

Beyond estate plans, you may want to consider establishing a special needs trust or educational fund. These tools hold real estate proceeds or rental income for your child’s benefit without jeopardizing government aid eligibility. If you ever need to sell or mortgage your home, having these structures in place lets you direct funds toward your child’s long-term care or education.

Additionally, life insurance policies naming your child or a trust as beneficiary can replace lost real estate equity. That strategy provides a stable foundation for your family home regardless of unforeseen events.

Coordinating With Financial and Legal Advisors

Adoption and real estate planning encompass several areas of law and finance. You’ll want input from professionals who understand both family and property law.

An attorney can draft or amend deeds, while a financial planner can recommend strategies for leveraging real estate equity in a tax-efficient manner. Working with professionals helps you maximize benefits and avoid costly mistakes in handling your real estate assets.

Financial advisors can also help you assess the impact of property taxes and capital gains if you decide to sell or transfer ownership. They may suggest holding periods or tax-deferred exchanges to preserve equity, and insurance agents can verify that your home is covered under policies reflecting your family structure.

Lenders might offer mortgage options that consider both parents’ credit histories, and regular reviews with advisors align your strategy with evolving laws and market conditions.

Addressing Guardianship and Custody Rights

When you finalize an adoption, naming a temporary guardian can provide peace of mind if both parents become unavailable. This designation grants someone you trust the authority to care for your child until a court approves a permanent arrangement.

Clear documentation prevents delays and disputes, especially during emergencies or when traveling outside Illinois. Establishing custody rights early lays the groundwork for a stable family environment.

Consider the following:

  • Temporary guardian designations: You can appoint a guardian in your adoption petition or a standalone document, giving immediate authority to care for your child if needed.

  • Court approval and documentation: The court must review and approve any guardianship plan, making sure the appointed individual meets the suitability standards of Illinois.

  • Recognition across state lines: By filing the appropriate Uniform Child Custody Jurisdiction and Enforcement Act (UCCJEA) forms, you help other states honour your custody orders without extra hearings.

A well-drafted guardianship plan complements your adoption decree by specifying who steps in if you’re incapacitated or traveling. This clarity shields your child from uncertainty while making sure your wishes guide their care until the adoption is finalized.

Handling Property Division During Separation or Divorce

If a same-sex couple divorces after adopting, Illinois law treats adoptive children the same as biological ones when dividing marital property. The court first determines which assets are considered marital versus separate property, taking into account pre-marital ownership and any gifts or inheritances received by one spouse alone.

Marital real estate typically divides based on equitable distribution, which seeks fairness rather than a strict 50/50 split. Judges look at factors such as each spouse’s contributions to the home, earning capacities, and the child’s best interests when assigning property.

Understanding these rules helps you plan ahead by choosing the right ownership title and drafting prenuptial or postnuptial agreements that protect your family and your assets.

Contact Us Today

At Alexander Grossman Attorneys at Law, our experienced attorneys can guide you through the process of securing property rights after adoption. Located in Skokie, Illinois, we serve Cook County, Lake County, Lincolnwood, Morton Grove, Evanston, Glenview, Wilmette, and Niles. Contact us today to help you protect your real estate interests and plan for your family’s future.